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Mon, 24 Dec 2012 03:57:25 +0800

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STAGES OF RELATIONSHIP.

Thu, 31 May 2012 02:56:08 +0800

STAGES OF RELATIONSHIP.

Strangers Stage.

— Lahat naman tayo dito nagsisimula sa pagiging strangers. Yung tipong maglalampasan lang kayo sa twing magkakasalubong kayo. Dedma dedma lang.

Pasulyap-sulyap Stage.

— Minsan may something na iba sa isang tao na hindi natin kilala kaya tayo ay napapalingon at kaya napapansin natin.. Maaaring sya ay maganda, gwapo, sexy, cute at kung anu-ano pang adjective na magdedescribe sa isang tao.

Hi, Hello Stage.

— At dahil nga napansin mo sya. Lalapitan mo sya dahil gusto mo syang makilala. Magpapakilala ka at kung hindi sya snob, magpapakilala rin sya.

Getting To Know You Stage.

— Para sakin, ito talaga yung pinakasimula ng lahat kung pano lumalalim yung relationship ng dalawang tao. Dito sa stage na ‘to, nalalaman nyo yung mga interests ng bawat isa at yung mga hindi nyo gusto. Dito sa stage na ito, mas nakikilala nyo ang bawat isa.

Friendship Stage.

— Ito naman yung stage na kung saan lumalalim na yung relationship nyo. In a way na, nasasabi mo na sa kanya yung mga problema mo. Parang unti-unti mo ng binibigay yung trust mo sa taong yun at magaan na yung loob mo sa kanya.

Falling Stage.

— At dahil nga palagi mo na syang kausap, kasama at kakwentuhan. Hindi mo maiiwasang ma-fall na sa taong yun. Hindi mo na maiiwasang mainlove sa kanya.

The Awkward Stage.

— Dahil totally na nainlove ka na sa kanya, medyo magiging awkward na sayo na pansinin at kausapin sya. Tapos kapag nangyari yun, magtataka naman sya kung bakit mo sya iniiwasan.

Aminan Stage.

— Hindi mo na talaga kayang itago pa yung nararamdaman mo sa kanya. Kaya naisip mong sabihin na lang ito sa kanya. Dahil baka may possibility rin na gusto ka nya. So, inamin mo na nga sa kanya na gusto mo sya. PArang nabunutan ka ng tinik nung sinabi mo sa kanya.

Heartbreak Stage.

— Nung inamin mo sa kanya na gusto mo sya, inakala mong ganun din yung nararamdaman nya para sayo pero nagkamali ka, hindi pala. Hanggang friendship lang pala ang kaya nyang i-offer sayo kasi ayaw nyang masira yung friendship nyo. At ito na ang simula ng pag-iyak at pagddrama mo.

Suyuan Stage.

— Simula nung inamin mo sa kanya na gusto mo sya at sinabi nyang hanggang friends lang kayo, bihira na kayong mag-usap, magkita or magkatext. Ngayon naman, sya ang nakarealize na gusto ka rin pala nya. Natakot lang sya na sabihin rin yung nararamdaman nya dahil natatakot syang masaktan. At dahil dun, sisimulan ka na nyang suyuin at ipakitang mahal ka din nya.

Pakipot Stage.

— Nalaman mo na ngang may gusto rin pala sya sayo at sinimulan ka na nyang suyuin pero ikaw naman ‘tong pakipot. Halata namang gustung-gusto mo rin pero hindi mo pinapahalata sa kanya. At deep inside, kilig na kilig ka.

The Yes Stage.

— At heto na nga ang pinakahihintay mong moment, ang maging kayo. Dahil hindi mo na mapigil ang kilig sa loob mo, napagdesisyunan nyo na na maging kayo na officially.

Ilan lamang yan sa mga stage na pinagdadaanan nating mga teens pagdating sa relationships. Hindi lahat ay nakaexperience/makakaexperience nyan. Basta kung ano mang pagdaanan natin pagdating sa relationships, wag nating ibibigay ang lahat at wag tayo basta-basta susuko. Kung pwede pa namang ayusin, ayusin kaagad habang maaga pa kesa magsisi tayo sa huli.

HOW TO BUILD TRUST IN A RELATIONSHIP?

Thu, 31 May 2012 02:54:21 +0800

HOW TO BUILD TRUST IN A RELATIONSHIP?

Building trust in a relationship can be difficult. People think they know how to, but sometimes it doesn’t work with some people. Building trust is a very important part of a relationship, and without it, relationships can be very stressful.

— Be predictable.

a lot of people believe that mixing things up makes a great relationship. In other words, always planning something new to surprise the other. First, although surprises are nice from time to time, stability and uniformity will strengthen, and are far more important in a relationship. Uniformity sounds boring, and we would all like some surprise in our life, but you need to be predictable to make things work in the long run. Predictability builds trust.

— Be Reliable.

TRUST is just another way of saying you can rely on someone. You trust your partner to do certain things no matter what at all times. This trust builds security in a relationship. The same thing is true when you are able to depend on all the other things that happen in a relationship to be just as reliable.

— Mean what you say. Your partner can read your face better than anyone else.

if you are lying, or trying to hide some true feeling by not quite saying all that is on your mind, they will be able to tell. They might even think you are cheating, which can tear down the trust in your relationship. When they know they can trust whatever comes out of your mouth without hesitation, then you are building a bond that can be unshakable.

— Have faith in your partner’s capabilities.

in other words, if you believe at all that they are not competent in some things, or all things they do, your trust in them will not be solid. If this is the case, you need to be up front with them on the issues in an honest and loving manner. This will allow you to work through this and keep the trust with each other.

— Be up front with each other.

don’t keep anything hidden, nothing should be privileged and kept from the other. You have to know that sooner or later all things come to light, and the consequences of not being completely truthful will kill the trust, and ruin your relationship.

— Don’t be reluctant to share your desires with each other.

too many people never let their partners know what they need. Don’t let your partner wonder, or try to guess what they should do for you. It is essential this happens with both partners. If only one partner is being catered to by the other, there is a chance one will feel smothered, or the other might feel neglected. Either scenario is not good.

— Be willing to say no.

it is ok to listen to your partner needs, and try to fulfil them, but sometimes it’s just as valuable to say no. You can’t do everything all the time, and you will actually earn some respect when you refuse to do something once in a while. Taking a stand, and imposing your own will, can actually enhance the trust between you.

— Consistently try to expand your relationship.

there will always be reasons for growth. Through good times and bad, you must always be willing to stand tall and face all trials. When we listen to each other, even if the things you are hearing might hurt your feelings, you must face them in order to strengthen your relationship. If you don’t do this, like a vine without water, your relationship will wither and die.

— Trust your partner!

how can your partner trust you when you don’t trust them? Having trust takes two people, and without one person building trust too, it’s like a fish without water.

*** There will always be trials and tribulations in a relationship. But when you face difficulties with an open mind while working through them, the trust in your relationship will grow stronger as a result.***

Mahirap Kapag Nasanay kang lagi siyang andyan :)

Thu, 31 May 2012 02:52:23 +0800

Minsan kahit ok ang relasyon niyo. Dapat iniisip mo rin na magtira ka dapat sa sarili mo. At hindi lahat sa ka relasyon mo. Kahit na buo ang tiwala mo diyan. Kahit na sobrang mahal mo yan.

Dapat meron pa rin dapat sa sarili.

Parang alak lang yan. Huwag kang magubos kapag makikipaginuman ka. Para makauwi ka.

Sa pag-ibig naman huwag kang maguubos ng pagmamahal sa sarili mo para naman maka MOVE ON ka.

Ginawa mong buhay ang relasyon ninyo. Iniwan mo yung ibang taong malalapit sayo.

Mga kaibigan mo. Pati magulang mo sinusuway mo. Hindi mo na sila sinasamahan kapag nagpapasama sila sayo. Natuto ka nang sumagot dahil sa may sinasabi silang hindi maganda sa karelasyon mo.

Paano nasanay kang kasama mo siya. Hindi lang sa kanya iikot ang mundo mo. Napakaraming bagay ang tumutulong para umayos ang pagkatao mo.

LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP :)

Thu, 31 May 2012 02:51:05 +0800

HOW TO DETERMINE WHETHER YOUR LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP IS WORKING?

Is your long distance relationship working? It can be hard to tell. this is how will show you how to sort through the confusing mush that is your and your partner’s emotions.

— Make sure you trust one another.

this is one of the biggest parts of being in a long distance relationship. If there is no trust, find out why. Discuss the situation with your partner, and work together to solve your problems.

— Be willing to make sacrifices.

a relationship that is not physical or where you do not get to see your partner every day can be very fragile. You must be willing to make sacrifices that others may not need to make in relationships where the couple see each other all the time.

— Make sure you love your partner.

do you love or feel a strong attraction to this person? This is necessary for a strong long distance relationship.

— Ensure that you are both willing to wait for each other.

many long distance relationships fail because people get impatient waiting for the affection they long for from their partner, so be sure that you are both willing to wait.

— Establish multiple ways of contacting each other in case your computers or phones fail.

— Know when to take some time away.

with a rocky relationship, you might need time off to find yourself. If there is true love, you will be miserable without each other. A few days usually does the trick.

*** Be aware that this will not work in every case, and may make your partner angry. You know your girl- or boyfriend best, so you make the call.

— Get together as soon as possible.

hanging out in person will take away much of your natural human longing.

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* Love knows no distance. Don’t knock it ‘til you’ve tried it.

* If you think you love someone far away, you probably do.

* It’s much easier to love a person who is close, rather than 3 thousand miles away.

These solutions may not work for everyone. All relationships are different, so make the choices that will work best in yours. ;)

Mahirap Kapag Nasanay kang lagi siyang andyan :)

Thu, 31 May 2012 02:42:41 +0800

"Mahal na mahal kita babe, kaya natitiis ko yung hirap at sakit. Pero ngayon hindi ko na talaga kaya, sorry :("

Tue, 24 Apr 2012 01:23:53 +0800

madalasiwanan:

Sabe ng drama ko? Haaaaaaaaaay buhay. Minsan talaga kahit sobrang mahal na mahal mo ang isang tao, mas mainam padin na palayain siya kesa ipagduldulan mo sakanya yung sarili mo.

あいしてる~ Heartbreak Warfare.: Alam mo kung anong bihira?

Sun, 22 Apr 2012 01:46:37 +0800

あいしてる~ Heartbreak Warfare.: Alam mo kung anong bihira?:

theskullcandiii:

Yung lalaking:

Kayang ipakita kung gaano ka niya kamahal.

Rerespetuhin ka bilang babae.

Nananatiling loyal sa kabila ng maraming temptations.

Tumutupad sa panga pangako at may isang salita.

Po-protektahan ka at hindi ka babastusin.

Seseryosohin ka at hindi lolokohin.

Hindi nauubusan ng…

To Infinity and Beyond. ∞: Girls.

Sun, 22 Apr 2012 01:45:58 +0800

To Infinity and Beyond. ∞: Girls.:

shegotmyattention:

Mahirap intindihin pero kahit ganun kailangan mo pa rin silang intindihin.

Base sa mga nakikita ko dito sa tumblr na mga dapat gawin at hindi dapat gawin kapag may ganito o ganyan ang mga babae parang hindi naman siya epektib, siguro kasi hindi lahat ng babae ay ganun, hindi lahat ng ginagawa…

MAS MABUTI NANG DITO KA TUMAMBAY, KAYSA SA KANTO.: SERYOSO SA'YO ANG LALAKI KAPAG

Sun, 22 Apr 2012 01:41:05 +0800

MAS MABUTI NANG DITO KA TUMAMBAY, KAYSA SA KANTO.: SERYOSO SA'YO ANG LALAKI KAPAG:

icantspellyou:

Consistent siya. Kung ano ang mga pinakita niya sa iyo nung nanliligaw pa lang, hindi yun magbabago kahit maging kayo na.

Dadalhin ka sa bahay nila para ipakilala sa magulang, hindi yung kung kailan walang tao para lang masolo ka sa kwarto niya.

Hindi siya nahihiyang hawakan ang kamay mo sa…

Drop a color in my ask box. Anon or not. Please?

Sun, 22 Apr 2012 01:39:39 +0800

Drop a color in my ask box. Anon or not. Please?:

jaxxxstone:

Yellow: When you get older, where would you want to live?
Tan: Orange: Where do you want to be right now?
Lilac: What is your dream vacation?
Beige: What is your favorite dream?
White: Who was your first kiss?
Purple: Who was your last kiss?
Tangerine: Give a description of who you like.
Gray: Share a relationship story.
Green: Share a family story.
Gold: Share a story that makes you smile.
Black: Share something you did embarrassingly.
Blue: Are you still friends with the people you met in elementary school?
Magenta: What is something you barely tell anyone?
Red: What are your hobbies?
Violet: What college do you plan to attend?
Brown: Would you rather have a relationship or friend with benefit? Explain.
Peach: Who is your favorite teacher so far?
Pink: What is the meaning behind your url?

hersheypatootie: Kapag nag-aaway tayo at nahahantong sa hiwalayan. Pinapakita ko lang na malakas...

Sun, 22 Apr 2012 01:38:53 +0800

hersheypatootie:

Kapag nag-aaway tayo at nahahantong sa hiwalayan. Pinapakita ko lang na malakas ako, na okay lang, Na wala lang sakin na mawala ka. Pero ang totoo niyan, gustong gusto ko pigilan mo yung mga nangyayari. Gustong gusto kong hilain mo ko pabalik sa piling mo. Yakapin mo ko at dahan dahang sabihing hindi mo ko kayang mawala sa buhay mo. Kasi ako, ganun din, di ko kaya malayo sayo. Ikaw na ang buhay ko eh. Mahal na mahal kita. Di ko kaya pag nangyari yun. HINDI KO KAYA.

13 Lessons Learnt From A BreakUp

Fri, 13 Apr 2012 12:37:50 +0800

icantspellyou:

After a breakup, especially after a long term relationship, one of the last things we usually want to think about is what we learned from it. Dealing with the pain and emotions is hard enough, but after awhile we may start to realize that even though the relationship didn’t work out, we learned a lot from it. I, personally can attest to that for having experienced it first-hand. It takes experiencing certain things to feel the full impact of the lessons and learn them the hard way.

And yes, indeed there were lessons after a breakup, below are some I learned for all that I’ve been thru exactly a year ago:

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Ayon sa Alamat ng Tao, tayo ay nagmula sa hinulmang putik.

Wed, 11 Apr 2012 23:42:42 +0800

hoyelayne:

Ang di nila alam, yung iba hinulma sa PLASTIC.

Malalaman mo daw na mahal ka ng isang tao kung:

Wed, 11 Apr 2012 23:40:54 +0800

beben-eleben:

Hindi siya natatakot na pagalitan ka pag pasaway ka.

Sabihan ka ng baliw o adik kapag makulit ka na.

Alam niya ‘yung mga kapintasan mo at mga bagay na ikagagalit mo pero inaasar ka pa rin niya.

Ginagawa niya ‘yun hindi para mapikon ka o mag-away kayo, kundi para malaman mong kahit ganun ka, mahal ka talaga niya.

あいしてる~ Heartbreak Warfare.: Alam mo, kung binabalewala ka lang nung taong mahal mo,

Wed, 11 Apr 2012 23:40:39 +0800

あいしてる~ Heartbreak Warfare.: Alam mo, kung binabalewala ka lang nung taong mahal mo,:

theskullcandiii:

Kahit na effort ka na ng effort, siguro panahon na rin para intindihin mo ang sarili mo. Hindi lahat ng oras eh ikaw ang bigay ng bigay. Matuto ka rin magpahinga. Alam mong ginawa mo na ang lahat para iparamdam sakanyang mahal mo siya, pero siya, dedma? Kuha lang ng kuha? Nako. Take a break muna….

Kung dumating ang panahon na wala na akong pakielam sayo, wag ka magalala, ginaya lang kita.

Fri, 30 Mar 2012 00:14:02 +0800

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Wed, 21 Mar 2012 00:10:42 +0800

PAPA JACK SAID #866: Masaya magkaroon ng karelasyon syempre. Pero hindi ka mamamatay kapag wala ka, hindi ka din matutunaw kapag single ka. Magkakaron ka din niyan, kung hindi man ngayon, darating at darating din yan.

Wed, 21 Mar 2012 00:09:55 +0800